Someone wise once said don’t even bother trying to help others until you first fix yourself. But I know the things I need to do and when I write about them I think it has the potential to help others while also serving to remind myself of things that are really important to remember. I’m not claiming I’m there yet. I freely admit I have far to go. Every day I’m reminded that I am not there yet. But I make progress every day and I believe I’ll get there eventually. No idea what it will look like. The situation I’m in now is pretty terrifying.